Showing posts with label life lessons. Show all posts
Showing posts with label life lessons. Show all posts

Sunday, March 04, 2018

Do Not Give Up ! - Priorise the Purpose of your Life


It takes self-confidence, planning, focus, discipline, small steps and perseverance to materialize a dream.

In the midst of all this, it is perfectly normal for us to be overwhelmed with what seems so far away. However, these feelings can not be stronger than the call to fulfill the purpose of your life. Do not be so hard on yourself when some unforeseen events force you to take a brake and retrace your steps.

These are the necessary spaces that life brings to breathe, so that we can digest all the sacrifices and assimilate the lessons learned. Life is fluid because choices are fluid on its own. There are no mysteries about this, sometimes it can lead you to one way or another, but without changing the end result.

What was done up to this point, no one else but you can get credit for it. So nothing was in vain. In its own term and time, life will use each step of your creations easily and efficiently to bring you the first fruits of your work. Thus, do not be discouraged to the point of nurturing the thought of giving up leaving all your previous efforts unfinished.

Take all your pieces, review your steps, make some adjustments if necessary, but give priority to the purpose of your life and continue from the point where you left off. You will notice that this time you are more prepared to achieve your goals than you were in the first stage of your life project.

From now on, be ready to know how to deal with success, in what you once thought to be, just a dream!

By Jacky Sewell



Sunday, September 17, 2017

About Me !

Hello, Divine sparks,
My name is Jacqueline Sewell, aka Jacky Sewell. I am excited to be here, and talk to you through this blog. I always wanted to share my life story with the world. It took a long time to take courage and literally cross the timeline of my life, facing the camouflaged pains of the past, reliving each episode as a powerful and liberating catharsis.
What really pushed me to start writing my book "Detachments_If it is not by Loving, It will be by Hurting" ? It was the realisation that through every episode of my life, there have always been the main lessons of detachment, screaming loudly in my deaf ears.
Between 2011 and 2014, everything that had to go wrong, in all possible areas (relationship, professional, health, spiritual), went wrong. Ironically, it was during this time, when I was in deep depression, that I felt compelled to write my story. Initially as a form of self-therapy, then I realised that while I faced so many challenges on my own, which for many would be a door to suicide, there was something that never let me give up life, and to believe in better days. In spite of all traumatic events, I also managed to get out of them wiser, fearless, positive and with a sense of duty to humanity.
I also believe that this book is relevant to today’s chaotic society. Where most are chasing the ‘have’, and little is said about ‘being’. Unfortunately, this is clearly confirmed to us, through its effects, in a unhappy generation, which has become consumerist, materialistic, separatist and, irrespective of its social level, unleashed the great evil of the century: “Depression”.
You may ask, what is the difference of this book from others with similar subject, and I say: Each book is unique, because each soul is a unique soul with different points of view, and with diverse experiences. However, we may all go through difficulties in life, but no one will face them, nor overcome them in exactly the same manner.
You will find in my story that the lessons of letting go are evident in all the experiences described, but most of all, of going through the trials of life with courage, faith, and resignation. Always, taking the positive out of a negative situation.
As the subtitle suggests, if you do not learn from love, life will teach you in difficult and repetitive ways until you do.
I wanted to share this with the world and who knows, to help someone who identifies with my story, giving them some hope and strength to continue advancing with their own timeline. I hope you enjoy each chapter, and discover in them some inspiration that makes you see that every event in your life matters.
In the course of the next few weeks, I will write here on the blog more about some of the various subjects I mentioned in my book, such as: what is detachment, my experience with depression, detaching from relationships, and others.
My main message, dear ones, is that life sometimes tends to send storms, in order to clear the pollution caused by our unhealed emotions. Thus, the trials of life are indeed, blessings in disguise. The old man dies, to raise the new one, just like a phoenix.
I would love to hear from you, and if you’ve read my book, tell me your thoughts, which chapter touched you the most. Have a blessed week.
Love and peace for all!
J. Sewell